What Your Children are Teaching You

We often are so focused on making sure we teach our children everything possible, that we forget to take a step back and look at what our children are teaching us. At Academic Learning Labs we meet amazing children every day, and even while we are teaching them, they are also teaching us. Below are just a few things your kids are teaching you.

Happiness and Satisfaction

Children have an incredibly simple level of happiness. Something as easy as cooking their favorite meal, or learning a new skill, can send them over the moon and make them feel like they have the best life. When you are feeling overwhelmed, or focusing on all the things you haven’t been able to get done, take a moment to watch your child’s simple satisfaction and happiness and suddenly you too may see that all those other things can’t take away from your love of life either.

Choose your Mood

We are always teaching our kids about making choices. They can have this, or that, but not both; you can go this way or that way; pick right from wrong. In the midst of a difficult day, where you may feel stressed, frustrated or angry, remember that you can choose your emotion. A child may ask “is mom mad”? You can choose to continue being frustrated, or learn that just like you teach your children, you have a choice of what mood to be in.

Turn To-Do’s into To-Enjoy

We try to teach our children that they should do things without being angry or upset, but to take a chore and take pride in our work. As parents, we often get bogged down with all of our “chores” and errands, and forget that lesson. You may be raking the leaves in the yard, and be exhausted and frustrated, but looking over at your child who is finding such pleasure in the crackling sound of stepping on a leaf, can teach you that some chores can also be a pleasure.

Redefine Success

A big lesson we teach our children is that success isn’t always measured in numbers, and that part of success is taking the journey. As a parent, you may have started a new business, or a taken up a new hobby that may not be going as successfully as you had hoped. As you have taught your child, getting 5 new clients may not be the 10 you had hoped for, but you have still succeeded. It reminds you to take pleasure in what you accomplish rather than be disappointed but what you haven’t.

We hope that you have enjoyed reading about some of the many ways your children are teaching you something. We would love to hear from you about other ways your children have taught you something.

Event Spotlight – Local Summer Activities

With the kids home all day for the summer break, parents often ask us at Academic Learning Labs for local events they can have their children participate in. The Orange County Public Library in Rancho Santa Margarita and the City of RSM offers a wide range of activities for children of all ages. Below is a list of some of the great summer activities they offer.




Craft Days

Mondays 2-4 pm open to children of all ages

Wacky Wednesday Craft Day 3 pm, 2nd-6th grade

Reading Programs

Summer Reading Program for Teens, Daily

Spanish Storytime, Tuesdays 1-1:30 pm for ages 3-5

Summer Storytime, Tuesdays 10:30 am for children of all ages

Lunch Bunch, Thursdays 12-1pm for 3rd-6th grade

Miscellaneous Programs

Writing and Publishing Your Book, Wednesday Jul 11, 11am-1pm, July 12, 2-4 pm, July 13, 1-3 pm

Jamie Ludovise Comic Camp, Wednesday July 25, 11 am-1 pm for children ages 12-18

Boys and Girls Club Summer Program, July 2nd – August 31st

Summer Concerts, Sundays July 15th – August 12th from 6-8 pm in Central Park

With so many activities one is sure to spark your child’s interest. We would love to hear about your child’s participation in one of these activities or other local activities they have enjoyed. For more information on these activities please visit the sites below with additional details.

5 Tips to Encourage Summer Reading

Summer is reminiscent of beach days, sprinklers, and lazy days, but it’s also a great opportunity to read a book. At Academic Learning Labs, parents often ask us how they can encourage their children to stay active mentally during the summer months. No one is a fan of required summer reading, but there are many fun ways to encourage summer reading.

Below are five tips on how parents can encourage summer reading.

1. Make sure your kids have plenty of books. Give your kids an opportunity to get new books by taking them to the library or the bookstore and letting them pick out new books that interest them. You can go to the library weekly to find new books or organize a book swap in your neighborhood. Find new ways to keep a fresh supply of books around your kids.

2. Always take books whenever you go somewhere, for you and your kids. Make sure your kids see you reading books and give them opportunities to read wherever you go. Whether you are at the beach, waiting in the doctors office, or waiting for a dance class to begin, use this downtime to these get in even a couple of minutes of reading in. You can also read the same books your kids are reading and then you can discuss the book.

3. Encourage social reading. If your child comes home from a friend’s house wanting to read a book because they are reading it, this is a great opportunity to encourage them to read socially. This really reinforces the idea that reading is cool and allows your child the chance to talk about the book with others. You can encourage social reading by buying two copies of a book for your child and their friend, so that they can both read it. You can also start a book club or take your children to see a movie that is based on a book they have read. Find opportunities to make reading cool and a social experience.

4. Try not to get hung up on whether or not your child “could” be reading more advanced books. As much as you want reading to be educational for your child, it is important to understand that reading provides a solace for your child. You can always suggest a book that is more advanced, but don’t push too hard. If your child finds reading enjoyable they will want to continue reading, which will allow them to push themselves. The most important thing is just to give them time to spend reading.

5. Try to keep some time available for reading. This is often the hardest tip to follow. Summers get busy and schedules start to fill up quickly. Finding some quiet time to relax and read is a great way to unwind and find respite from the busy days. We suggest you schedule some reading time each day for your child and make this a part of their summer adventure.

We hope that these tips have been helpful. We would love to hear other things you have done to encourage summer reading with your children.